the power of love...

Strong criticism, delivered in a mean or heartless way, is like hitting a man on... the head with a hammer. The power of love is infinitely more effective. Kind suggestions, given with love and understanding, can accomplish wonders, mere fault-finding accomplishes nothing. One is fit to judge others only after he has perfected his own nature. Till then, judging oneself is the only profitable analysis.-
Daya Mata (President, Self Realization Fellowship, LA, CA, USA)